Washington
- Federal Reserve Chairman Ben Bernanke has added his name to the long
list of people who believe we should measure prosperity in terms of
happiness and life satisfaction, instead of just dollars and data.
In a recent speech before a group of
international researchers, Bernanke talked about the difference between
happiness - a subjective and transitory feeling - and well-being, which
is a longer-term measure.
He said that keys to finding long-term
life satisfaction include "a strong sense of support from belonging to a
family or core group and a broader community, a sense of control over
one's life, a feeling of confidence or optimism about the future, and an
ability to adapt to changing circumstances."
This is a subject of some long-standing interest to the Fed chief.
In 2010 he delivered a memorable commencement address titled "The economics of happiness".
In both speeches, he conceded that while money may not buy all happiness, it helps.
People in societies that are
sufficiently well-off to provide an education, decent healthcare and a
clean, safe place to live are happier than those who are so impoverished
that they have to struggle for all of those things.
Having a lottery-winner's bank account
does not guarantee more happiness, but having enough money to buy
yourself the occasional treat or luxury helps.
The good news, for folks who agree with
the Fed chairman, is that there are well-documented ways to get a bigger
(happier) bang for your buck, on a very personal level.
Here's how to deploy your resources to maximize your enjoyment of life. Hint: It's not about the car.
Fund a group activity.
The factor most highly correlated to life satisfaction is having family, friends and community connections.
Maybe that means joining a church, or being in a band or a book club, or hosting regular potluck dinners with neighbours.
Go on vacation.
There is a lot of research behind the idea that experiences are worth more, in terms of happiness, than things.
That is because time improves experiences in memory while it tends to desensitize us to things.
So if you get a hot tub or a new TV or
car, and you use them day after day, you start getting used to them and
perhaps stop appreciating them.
But if you take a special trip, you will
stop being bothered by the flat tyre or lost luggage and instead
remember fondly - if somewhat fuzzily - how much fun you had while you
were traveling.
Get tools and supplies for a hobby.
Becoming so engrossed in an activity
that you lose track of time is called a state of "flow" and it is
associated with a higher level of life satisfaction.
For some people, that might mean buying
power tools and puttering in a woodshop; someone else might get there by
learning to use design software, canning jam or playing piano.
Buy a treadmill, or a jump rope, or just some sneakers.
It doesn't have to be a super-expensive
P90X workout plan, but anything that gets you moving stimulates those
endorphins that elevate your mood. That's science!
Buy a scrapbook or journal.
"Savouring" a good experience by writing
about it, thinking about it, or even posting your pictures on Facebook
actually increases your enjoyment.
Or as Bernanke has said, "happiness can
be promoted by fighting the natural human tendency to become entirely
adapted to your circumstances."
If you eat fresh tomatoes three times a
day for the entire month of August, you might stop thinking about how
delicious they are.
At the end of the day, you can take a
few minutes to write in your gratitude journal about how truly fresh and
sweet those heirlooms were, and that will cause you to enjoy them even
more. (But it will probably make you less happy if you go back and read
that journal entry next December, when you are eating cardboardy
out-of-season tomatoes.)
Spend money on systems.
Having control over your life provides a huge happiness boost.
Sometimes you get to have control over
big issues, like taking a stand with your boss or your kid (assuming
they are not the same person.)
Sometimes, it's just having the right calendar, contact manager and computer backup system.
Donate to a small and/or local charity.
There is a lot of academic research
backing up the hypothesis that money spent on others delivers more good
feelings than money spent on yourself.
But new research from Lara Beth Aknin at
the University of British Columbia in Vancouver takes that further:
"The emotional benefits of giving appear to be greatest when the giver
feels a social connection with the recipient and also feels that their
gift has made a meaningful impact."
Hence the little local gift - it enables you to see the impact your donation has.
Buy time.
Ben Bernanke did not say this, but if
you are working 60 hours a week and arguing with your spouse about who
vacuums the living room, you can probably make yourself happy by hiring
someone to clean your house.
The same principle applies for lawn mowing and the occasional convenience food dinner.
Especially if you use the extra time to do one of the other things on this list, and not playing solitaire on your iPhone.
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